The Best of 2013

Despite its typical ups and downs, 2013 has been a great year for our family.  The very best thing of the year was watching Nora grow.  At this time last year I could still call her my baby, but now she really is a little kid!  She has also become less of a mama's girl each day, and I've loved watching her become more independent and more comfortable with all of her family members!

It feels like Billy and I spend most of our time at home, and that's fine with us, because home is our favorite place to be.  Our ordinary daily life is exactly what we've worked to make it.  But when I look back on all the pictures of the year, I realize just how many fun activities we've managed to fit in!  Here are some of my favorite less ordinary moments from throughout the year.

January

Oregon visit to meet Everett James and to see all of our Oregon family and friends PLUS Mimi and Aunt Dana

February

The Ravens win the Super Bowl: Nora is appropriately thrilled

Baby Julian arrives

Vickie and I meet Mat Kearney before attending his show

March 

Nora's first snow day

April

Nora's first baseball game

June

Summertime family fun with Cash, Lily, and the rest of Billy's mom's family

Visit from Oma

July

Anniversary Vacation to Bethany Beach

Visit from Kelsey

DC Tennis Tournament with Vickie

August

Killers Concert on my birthday

Visit to Oregon

September

Nora's first Orioles game

October

Family trip to Rocky Acres Farm

Nora's Birthday Parties

Birthday visit from the West Coast Family

Heather and Jeremy's Wedding

November

Research trip to Yale

December

Lots of visits from family and friends!  In the past two weeks, we've had friends and family members from near and far visit us at home, which has made me hyper aware of how fortunate we are.  So as I get ready to bid farewell to 2013, I have so much gratefulness in my heart for all the large and small scale privileges Billy, Nora, and I enjoy.

Nora Playing and Singing

It's hard to get Nora to do anything on video these days.  She loves to say cheese for a single photo, but she gets shy and/or annoyed anytime I try to record her doing something new or funny.  Today, though, I did manage to get video of her playing "partners," one of her favorite games for the past few weeks, as well as singing an entire verse of "Twinkle" before changing the words.  Enjoy!

Merry Christmas!

Our Christmas celebrations today topped off what has been a really exciting holiday season for Nora and our family.  She has been delighted by all the aspects of the holiday this year, so in addition to sharing a few pictures of our Christmas day, I wanted to post some of my other favorite scenes of the season.

Christmas Day

I didn't manage to get any pictures of the family festivities, but we spent Christmas Eve with Billy's Dad's side of the family.  After the three of us got up and opened presents on Christmas morning, Patti, Chuck, and Brian came over for Christmas breakfast.  Later in the morning Tres and Vickie joined us to celebrate, and then after Nora's nap we went up to Billy's aunt's house to spend the afternoon and evening with his mom's whole side of the family.  We are thankful that we got to see all of our Maryland relatives in a 24 hour span!

Christmas Eve

Christmas Decorations

Snow Day

Christmas Clothes

Making Sugar Cookies with Aunt Vickie

Visit to Santa

Decorating Wrapped Gifts

We're sorry to be unable to head west to see my family this holiday season, but we anxiously await my mom's trip to Maryland and we are thankful that FaceTime makes it easy to talk to Nate, Ashley, and Everett regularly.  We hope your December has been full of holiday cheer!

More Light Moving Forward

My dad used to say the winter solstice was his favorite day of the year.  He hated the days of waning daylight that are especially noticeable in Portland, where I remember it being dark at, like, 4pm.  The solstice was his favorite day because it meant from here on out, every day was going to get a little bit brighter than the last.  I spent my solstice grading final exams.  Billy graciously took Nora up to his parents' so I could make my way through them at home.  I finished them before bedtime, thus bringing to an official close the semester that has felt so heavy.  Oscar's ill health and death have cast a long shadow.  I was due to sit for a translation exam on Dec 13 to satisfy our program's foreign language department, so the need to prepare for that loomed ahead of me all term.  Although these things are minor compared to the other heavy sorrows I've shouldered throughout my graduate career, they had an impact on me, and they have made it hard to see how much progress I've made. In the spirit of optimism about the future that the solstice represents, I wanted to write a post documenting all of the things that I managed to accomplish in this term.  Otherwise, I'll be inclined to forget, and that feeling of "I didn't get anything done!" that often plagues me will start to set in.

So, in no particular order, here goes!

• I finished revising my dissertation prospectus and filed it with our program!  Despite having completely changed my research topic after my comprehensive exam, I managed to get it in just in time to meet the "9 month" guideline our program has encouraged.  
• I made it through another semester working as a TA for a large lecture class.  There are advantages and disadvantages of this arrangement, but I love teaching and often feel handcuffed by being a helper in someone else's course.  I am fortunate to have worked with a professor who has genuine appreciation and respect for me, so that definitely makes a difference.  But next term I get to teach my own course, with my own curriculum, and I can't wait.
• I did my best to work 10 hours per week on the Katherine Anne Porter Correspondence project.  I finished getting all of the 5000+ pages ready for digitization, completed the inventory of them, and did the best I could to correct and complete the metadata records.  My rewards for all this work, so far, are being able to see the letter images together online and being promoted to "content expert" on the project.  This means that moving forward, I'll be doing less metadata work and more work that draws upon my knowledge of KAP.  In other words, I'll get to do the kind of stuff that could make a big positive impact on my dissertation and employment prospects.
• I hosted back to back birthday parties for Nora Jane.  What was I thinking?!  I guess I was thinking I wanted to give her family and friends a chance to celebrate her, and I wanted her to know how special and how well loved she is.  So, mission accomplished.
• I potty trained my not-quite-two year old.  She is now rarely having accidents, even at school.  She still wears a diaper overnight, but I LOVE not having to change diapers. And I love how proud my big girl is of herself every time she goes on the potty.
• I celebrated 10 years together with Billy.  Truly, none of the things on this list would have been possible to accomplish without him.  I hope people read this blog with that fact in the back of their minds at all times.  But sometimes it needs to be stated, explicitly.  My ten years with Billy have been the best years.  They are all helping me become my best self.  Here's a picture of us at Mythbusters Live, celebrating 10 years together while surrounded by a bunch of pre-pubescent boys in sweatpants: 

• I satisfied the foreign language requirement! THANK GOODNESS.  The saga of setbacks I've encountered in trying to get this requirement out of my way is very long, very annoying, and was ultimately very anxiety-inducing.  But it's over now, which means I no longer have to choose between working on my dissertation and studying a language that will not be mentioned in it.  It also means:
• I've advanced to candidacy!  Basically, this means that I have advanced to the status of someone who only has to write the dissertation-- all other degree requirements have been satisfied.  Most people advance to candidacy after passing their comprehensive exam, which I did last year, but the language requirement kept me from reaching this status until now.  
• I completed my first out-of-town research trip to Yale.  This deserves a post of its own, but since I haven't gotten around to that yet, I want to mention it here.  In early November, I drove up to New Haven so I could consult the Josephine Hersbt archive.  It was such a productive trip. I left Monday morning and returned Thursday, which gave me about 26 hours of research time in the Beinecke, which worked out perfectly.  I did a lot of work in advance to figure out what I wanted to see, so in my three days there I found all of the things I was expecting to find AND so much more material pertinent to my dissertation that has never been addressed in Hersbt scholarship.  Meanwhile, Nora and Billy did really well at home together during my 3 night absence.  I can't wait to have a chance over break to start working, in earnest, on the chapter that will incorporate this research!  Here are some pictures of my trip

So while I often felt like I was struggling to keep my head above water this semester, and I have a LOT to do over break if I'm going to have a decent writing sample to submit for my fellowship applications, I am proud of what I managed to accomplish this term.  Maybe next term I'll have a little more time for blogging?